Few years ago, when 1 of my fren tell me that help ppl must help bo liao stuff, but when is really serious case, u absolutely must not help. In that way, den ppl will treasure your help.
I tot he was jus saying some shitz cos it obviously didn make sense. But for some reason it nvr left my head after all these years.
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When sharing my shitz experiences and teaching nonsense to the new specs, one of the things is to blindly obey the advice of ur seniors/family/people who are more skilled den yourself. Sometimes they take the effort to explain the reason. Sometimes they dun cos they are lazy. Sometimes its impossible to understand until u experience, but that experience might be unpleasant. Neways they shorten the learning curve by telling us the end product, after learning it the hard way themselves.
If they dunno shit, dey wun/shouldn advice/comment on the matter liao. My father wun come telling me how to mod a psp.
Now goin back to the unorthodox guidelines for helping others....
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Some ppl are very nice in general. When they go get a drink, they get 1 for you too without prompt. When they see your shit lying in a place where its nt supposed to be, they return it to you. Simple small small acts of kindness.
But when ARMAGEDDON is here. Hardly will they be of any help. However u forgive the person cos u understand its an incredible problem, plus usually they so nice to you liao, jiu swa la.
Some ppl cant be bothered about you. They do their own shitz. Closes the door after entering the room despite knowing you are jus behind him and even heading for the same place. Wun say hi in the morning. Gives off the "mind your own fucking business and leave me alone" aura.
However when shitz happen, often u find them clearing up the shitz. And u feel no guilt when u see them suffer. They deserve it. Better for them to suffer den my frens wad right?
Isnt it so true, its sad?
I rmb several occasions, i succumb to the easy option. Heck care those that are out of hand, den work with whoever thats remaining.
Its like a judge convicting one of the suspect randomly despite a lack of evidence cos they give up on finding the culprit, "ahhh he will do. lets jus close the case and go fly kite~"
Help when its unnecessary, reject to help when its seriously required.
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One more shitz thats in my mind is this phrase from the anime im currently watching "Without love it cannot be seen."
In the anime, there is this 2 ppl who have different view on this one case. This bitch was the only survivor in a certain freak incident which resulted in the the death of every1 in their annual family conference. Ms A thinks that the bitch killed every1 so she will get 100% of the inheritance. Its extremely profitable for the bitch and seems like good enuff of a motive for her actions. But Mr B, knowing the bitch, believes that it is absolutely impossible for her to kill her family for the inheritance, at the very least her immediate family, for she loved them so much.
Sometimes when some shitz happen, we think, wad the fuck,has he got no conscience? But perhaps there is some reason behind it?
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Mr A
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Mr C gt no footwear cept boots. He finds some sandals in the open. Yay. Can change into casual wear + sandals and go have fun liao. After having fun, he returns. But he didn return the sandals, yet.
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Can we say that case 1 and case 2 is the same? But for some reason i find Mr A a absolutely horrible person but im totally understand Mr C's plight and find his actions totally acceptable.
It can only be explained with this, "without love, it cannot be seen".
Ok now my mind is empty. Finally can start reading my umineko. Wad the, 2am liao. Haiz tml den read la.
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